Sunday, August 21, 2005

Man is a social animal!!!

Is he???????He can’t live his life without interacting wit people. Is this true? Yes, he does need other people to fulfill his basic needs and desires like food, shelter, etc. Other than these needs does he still needs to interact with other people??

There are people who exist who rarely interact with much people in their day to day life. Like some people who just work on their computer for days together and don’t step out of their house. We usually consider these people to be crazy. But they aint crazy, they are people who have total control of their lives, according to me.

Take the example of a writer who locks himself up in some cabin in some mountain side for almost a month. He does so not because he’s a lonely person or afraid of interacting with people. He does so because this is what he loves doing in his life. Does he really feel lonely having no people around hum for a month? No. Does that mean he’s not social? No. He just enjoys his life, in his own special way.

Can we all really live like this writer? I know I can’t!! I can do the same for a day or maybe… just maybe stretch it for a week. But a month? I’d die of isolation.

Is it because I’m abnormal? Or is it that the writer is abnormal? Who am I to judge ? Who are we to judge others?

In one way I think I’m the one who is abnormal. I don’t have enough control in my life to live without other people.

But thinking about it again, why should I live without people around me? Why should I purposely isolate myself from others. Everybody including me loves being around family and friends. Yes I agree we do need time for ourselves too. But otherwise most of the time we want to spend timw with people who we love and love us in return.

And why shouldn’t we want that? Everyone wants to enjoy every moment of his life.

So well don’t really think about any of the stuff I just said, its all crap!!!

Just live life to the fullest and have no regrets cause you live life only once..

1 comment:

Priyank said...

I think even the person who live aloof lives his life to fullest because he love being that way!..

its all about being contend with wat you have and not bothered by unneccasary problems caused by so-called-SOCIAL PEOPLE!!